Good day to you. My name is Dougie and I’m a Celiac. How many times have I made this or a variance of this greeting to people I’ve interacted with? I wouldn’t be able to count. The more important question I would like to ask is this – how do you feel when you make that greeting?
Celiac disease is an emotional autoimmune disease. When I was younger, I felt like cringing when I had to announce my disease. Why? It alerted others I was different, not the norm, and high maintenance. I would then have to go into my spiel of what celiac disease is and what I can eat (yes, I can eat potatoes) and cannot eat (no, I cannot eat just the cherries off of the pie crust), gluten. It can be very frustrating, especially if my audience doesn’t get it. Having to explain myself, and my disease, only intensifies my feelings of difference. Now that I’m older and have a better understanding of the disease, I embrace it. As a result of embracing celiac disease, I’ve found my emotions and self-esteem has improved for the positive. I no longer cringe when I say “Hi, my name is Dougie and I’m a Celiac.” Why? Because of my attitude change and how I feel about myself and my disease. I own who I am and what I have. While celiac disease is not the whole of me, it is a part of me.
Besides the social element of emotion in regard to celiac disease, there is another important emotional aspect – the food itself. Yes, for the normal diet, food brings about many emotions as a result of memories, comfort, and well-being. For the celiac survivor, food also brings about these same emotions but I feel there’s more to it. Negative emotions and feelings can abound if the celiac survivor focuses on what they can’t eat or make. On the flip side, the celiac survivor can achieve the same emotions as those on a regular diet by focusing on what they can eat or make. What can celiac survivors do to focus on what they can eat or make? Learn how to cook gluten-free by making substitutions for gluten flour in recipes. Focus on natural vegetables and fruits without using flour. Get delicious recipes from other celiac survivors. What is the celiac survivor left with? Emotions brought on by positive memories, comfort, and well-being.
I do not have a medical background or education. That said I feel many celiac survivors are not in touch with their emotions enough to validate themselves and what they are up against as a survivor. Acknowledging the feelings and emotions, I feel, is one of the first steps for the celiac survivor to recover mentally and then physically and truly be gluten-free. I feel until these first steps are understood and completed, the true celiac survivor does not exist. What do you think?
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May 19, 2012 @ 19:01:38
I still cringe when I have to tell potential mates that I have Celiac Disease. I am really not a high maintenance gal, yet I feel like this disease can come off as high maintenance. Then again, if it seems like too much work, then I don’t want that person in my life, anyways. But yeah, it’s definitely an emotionall-involved disease. Sitting in the back seat of a car while the people in the front chow down on AMAZING SMELLING fast food. Yes, I’m being healthy, but smells are attached to emotions. It’s not easy!
May 20, 2012 @ 16:10:11
I understand you when you say “I still cringe when I have to tell potential mates that I have Celiac Disease.” It’s understood that you are not a high-maintenance gal, but I know Celiac Disease can be interpreted as high maintenance. If others get it, “they get it.” If not, they won’t. If they are a true Human with compassion, heart, and emotion – they’ll listen. You are right to filter as you are doing. Don’t waste “energy” on a relationship if other is not willing to embrace your celiac need. Please reference this blog link for further info: http://glutenfreetip.com/2012/04/23/no-spousal-support-for-celiac-find-another-spouse/
Yes, I did not address smells in my original post. They are attached to emotions, memories, comfort, and well-being along with food. Thank you for that reminder.
I appreciate your awesome thought out comment.
Regards,
Dougie
May 20, 2012 @ 13:25:37
Last week when I told somebody I ate paleo, for the first time ever I didn’t get a blank stare in return. That was refreshing. He actually knew what I was talking about.
As far as emotions go, once I let go emotionally of what I can’t eat, that’s when I was finally able to have a positive attitude about what I can.
May 20, 2012 @ 16:15:21
I’ll apologize in advance, I didn’t know what “paleo” was until I started tweeting & blogging. I can’t remember when I started tweeting but I started my blog in 11/2011 & I may have started tweeting approx. a month prior.
I understand what you mean about “letting go emotionally.” I’m not w/ medical training, but I think I would equate that w/ going through the grieving process of losing what you “can’t eat.” I’m so glad you have a positive attitude w/ what you can eat!
Thanks for your honest comments!
Regards,
Dougie
May 22, 2012 @ 09:09:38
I cringe when having to speak of Coeliac because of the ‘disease’ part – it’s not like i’m infected with the zombie virus! I often rush to dismiss any thoughts the stranger may have about the ‘disease’ before they even have time to think!
May 22, 2012 @ 18:08:54
I truly appreciate and think I comprehend what you mean. The negative connotation of the word “disease” is a strong one in our present society. Until that changes, we (and all other surivors of their respective ailments) will endure this stigma.
That said I think if we, with celiac disease, change our thought pattern in one small way, it may help us relate with those who don’t have our disease. What is that small way? Reference yourself as a “celiac survivor.” If you reference yourself as “suffering from celiac disease,” you are only perpetuating the negative connotation of the description of your diagnosis. Make sense?
I hope this helps, and many thanks for taking the time to write this comment!
Regards,
Dougie
May 23, 2012 @ 07:57:05
That’s a lovely way of putting it! Thanks for your reply! (:
May 24, 2012 @ 17:56:42
Thanks so much. I’m glad you like the positive spin.
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